How to I recconect with my sister after falling into the clutches of addiction, as my parents have?

Mark H
#1. September 28th, 2009, at 8:39 PM.

you need to stop Doing drugs

mlgable
#2. September 29th, 2009, at 12:40 PM.

How about just plain telling your are sorry for being an a** Hole this past year. That is what hubby’s late brother did. Called up to appolgize for being a you know what all those years that he did drugs.

funkyfeet
#3. September 30th, 2009, at 3:53 AM.

the coke is making you over think your problems. its like this, a day has 24 hrs in it, your brain is processing thoughts at an accelerated rate therefore 24 hours becomes an eternity. You will reconnect, just not today or tomorrow or maybe 2 years from now. And your relationship will be different. Try to keep that in mind. You are still human and you have to deal with your problems just as everyone else does – one day at a time.

kerstephon
#4. September 30th, 2009, at 7:04 PM.

i’ve seen two of your questions today and they were both way too personal and inappropriate for this website. Ask an expert or someone who knows you better. You can’t actually expect a helpful answer or anything that you haven’t already thought of from us.

allison schenk
#5. October 1st, 2009, at 1:06 PM.

what you need to do is see a shrink who you can talk with and open up to. then if you really want to reconnect with ur sis write her and just say sorry admite your mistake and then it would probably go on to talking to her on the phone and maybe seeing her and talking face to face. for your parents same thing. In rehab you will helped and it will get you off your addiction. and also try praying. you will get better, you will and dont worry your family will frogive you.
p.s( you need to eat, try to seperate yourself from sharp objects, if you get upset then just try to sit down and breath, please just listen to what i say and im sure god will help you.)

spartaworld.combat
#6. October 2nd, 2009, at 12:24 AM.

Your not ready for the next step in checking your drug problem. An addict like you will take the easy way out and not change their life style. There are various addiction organizations that help people like yourself, BUT you must want to really help yourself. As for your sister, she will probably want to support you IF you show that you intend to improve yourself.
Spartawo…

chris
#7. October 2nd, 2009, at 1:40 AM.

she’s your sister no matter what she’s always going to worry about you. but face it. you have to make a choice here. your drugs or a close relationship again with your sister. unfortunately you can only overcome an addiction when you only want to for yourself, not for anyone or anything else.in your question i felt that you were straddliing a fence. i was straddling that fence 22 years ago with my own addiction. i learned the hard way that i could only stop my addiction when i was ready to. so, where are you? so ,where are you? look deep inside of you and see what type of person you are and what you really want. your cocaine or your family. only you can decide that. GOD Bless you.

bettym
#8. October 2nd, 2009, at 3:33 PM.

heres a hug sweetie
and im gonna talk to you as i did my youngest daughter when she was into shooting up.. and the meth
you dont want to hur tus but ya do..us menaing parents… everyday we see our little girl wasting away… looking like a person with anorexia and worse..we see the clean… pretty.. fine dressed girl and now who is this one we have?? the filthy hair.. the eyes so wild they scare us.. and the needle marks in the arms… lower abdomen..between the toes etc…
and whose this girl in front of me..hitting me.. yelling calling me filthy names.. and beating my head into the wall??? whose this little girl i watched grab my hair and pull it out by handfuls as i took the beating and i was crying?? and asking for help.. help not for me..but for her??? help for her to live and let us be afamily again… the friends shes running with are cold… mean and nasty… stealing and lieing an cheating..using their bodies for sex..anything for a fix.. and whose this little girl i see shaking..crying..begging for hep??? when i couldnt help..it was too late..she was gone……. now/? hurt parents and family and dear friends?? well kids do this on drugs… it starts out with lieing..then stealing..then sex and then well even violence..
do i hate my daughter???? NOOOO i lvoe her
its called unconditional love..no matter what she does..i will not condone if i dont like but i will always love her…
her nasty friends???
was the needles and the drugs..and they took her from us..menaing her sisters..brothers andparents… and i still lvoe her..but the hurt NEVCER goes away.. so we learn and we help others as much as we can
sweetie i hope you ge tthe message in that… dont wait til its too late to try and change..do it now..and do it for nobody else..but for YOU!!!! get yourprid eback anyour self respect… and yes ya made your bed and will have to aly in it..but.. you will earn the respect and love of your family and friends again…
you sen with the addiction your mom has..and what youve gone through with ehr..break away and break the chain so you cna live a healthy productive life..and maybe someday instead of being dead..you’ll be helping your daughter as well..but not with the drugs..but learning to read..and write..and ride a bike and play ball etc…. and youll look back through the years and thank GOD ya changed… hugs sweetie i know its gonna be hard… but you have so much to live for and a life ahead of you full of surprises and yes bad times and yet it will all work out…because your smart enough to go for life a clean life..not the drugs
hugsss dear i want to reach out to you..to help you and wish i could just hug ya dear…
please go to rehab and make it work ok??? it was you who got yourself into the addiction ..now be strong and show yourself and others your gonna do this and get clean
and take this 1 step and day at a time dear
hugs and im always here if ya need to talk

mana
#9. October 5th, 2009, at 9:26 AM.

you’re a whore…

go get tested for AIDS

bubbles
#10. October 7th, 2009, at 6:50 PM.

No, you just need to go somewhere else an ATTENTION SEEK.

nice story, but next time put more imagination into it.

mother love
#11. October 10th, 2009, at 6:05 AM.

congratulation’s there’s 12 steps you have completed step one you admitted there a cocaine problem.. and you want help good luck you have 11 more steps