I made up with my boyfriend that was on cocaine? Im going to move wtih him when I turn 18?

PSU840
#1. September 23rd, 2009, at 12:52 PM.

Focus on your career, become self-reliant first

Jonny Rocket
#2. September 24th, 2009, at 8:04 PM.

Your a mad woman for datin this guy

cristianismo
#3. September 25th, 2009, at 12:18 AM.

you are CRAZY

big red
#4. September 28th, 2009, at 9:57 AM.

people with addictions dont just quit for someone.
trust me
dont do it

crumplebottom_1
#5. September 30th, 2009, at 4:13 AM.

Well.. you can say no to him if you want to.

If he’s addicted to cocaine, he probably won’t get far, anyway.

asreid14
#6. September 30th, 2009, at 7:51 AM.

You would be taking a real risk on this one. If you do decide to go to California, just make sure you have your own thing going (i.e – a job that is a consistent and reliable income stream). Make sure to take steps to protect yourself just in case this does not work out.

Pfo
#7. October 1st, 2009, at 12:25 PM.

Honestly, do you really like him, and do you think the skateboarding thing is going to pan out in the long run? For most people it doesn’t especially ones on coccaine.

angelcutie
#8. October 4th, 2009, at 8:04 AM.

retard fuck that guy

Marissa A
#9. October 6th, 2009, at 12:20 PM.

Sorry but I don’t see the difficulty in this decision…if there are people u can trust and depend on to treat u right and follow through…no one else should matter

sweet sweet jane
#10. October 9th, 2009, at 2:16 AM.

’supportive’ would be looking out for both yours and his own needs above trying to get high……’supportive’ would be attempting to provide stability to both his and your life, and not blowing money and his health on a coke habit.

Katt
#11. October 9th, 2009, at 3:01 AM.

no a fence, but it sounds like ur 2 good 4 him. if some1 has an addiction 2 something they love that thing more than u. & i think u have a little more time to think this over.

Yo gurl Jazz
#12. October 9th, 2009, at 9:07 PM.

If you are willing to help him or deal with his problem you should move in but if you don’t want to deal with it at all you should second guess it.

Puppy Love
#13. October 10th, 2009, at 2:02 AM.

Ok so what is your back-up plan when you are in a strange city with this guy and he: (1) Is addicted to Cocaine and/or other drugs. (2) Doesn’t have a job (3) Gets evicted (4) Gets arrested?

zp055att
#14. October 10th, 2009, at 9:25 AM.

Good luck. You’re going to need it.

Meri C
#15. October 13th, 2009, at 3:20 PM.

Oh Man, I wish you could see into the future cause if you could,you would stay so far away from anyone with an addiction! You wouldn’t even have to ask this kind of question.

amayamom1996
#16. October 13th, 2009, at 5:09 PM.

its hard when your young to see the whole picture. You would be better off without this boyfriend. the only way I would move with him is if he goes into treatment first. Go to college and go meet new people, you can always be a model on the side if you are meant to be one. But there are allot of beautiful people in the world. Don’t rely on modeling or this boyfriend to give you a happy future. Education and hard work are the only guaranteed keys to success.
Good luck…please consider what I am saying.

Alebasque
#17. October 14th, 2009, at 2:07 AM.

LEAVE HIM!
for your own sake…i think u should leave him

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#18. October 15th, 2009, at 7:50 AM.

If I were you, I wouldn’t move in/with a drug addict, you never know what could happen. But if you wanna move to Cali, do it yourself when you’re 18. You don’t have to move in with him! Besides, there must be a reason why you would consider him your “ex”.

mlb33
#19. October 18th, 2009, at 6:32 PM.

Big Red is right. You can’t just quit when you are addicted to a powerful drug like cocaine. By moving away with him, you are in essence supporting him being a cocaine user, because unless he has undergone some type of rehab, he is still using or will be again. The addiction will override everything else, whether he wants it to or not. If you move out there and have no one but him, what will you do if things fall apart again? Stay where you are and tell him that if he wants you to move that far away with him, he needs to prove to you that he is clean by going through rehab and being clean for a long time before you commit. You need to think about your own future. You are not married, so you really have no loyalty to him as far as moving away like that. Good luck. I know we all hope you make the choice and that he gets the help he needs.

glamour04111
#20. October 20th, 2009, at 7:44 AM.

It isn’t that easy to stop using cocaine. I believe he is still using. Make him take a drug test and prove he is clean before you move out to CA.

MiMi Sugar
#21. October 22nd, 2009, at 3:57 PM.

That’s it for me!!! You are a young girl in self destruct mode!!!!